Your Sexual Hints On A First Date Will Not Make Me Fall for You.

Some sexual hints can come across as harassing on a first date. Think before you speak and act.

Carol Townend
5 min readAug 3, 2021
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Before I got married, both men and women who I dated made sexual comments and threw sexual hints at me on the first date. This is a huge turnoff. I prefer my partners to get to know me personally while allowing to do the same thing, then I will only have sex with or sleep with a partner if he or she shows a genuine interest, and that interest is mutual on my part.

I got tired when the famous chat up line became, “I think you have a hot body and there are things I want to do with you.” on a first date. It isn’t exactly the kind of turn on that gets my sex drive working, it just leads me to believe that the person I am dating only wants one thing. I don’t mind kind compliments about my body, if they are kind. By kind, I do not mean comments like, “You have a hot pair of breasts,” and “I want to wrap my legs around you.” I mean complimentary comments like, “Your hair is beautiful today,” or “I love what you’re wearing.” or, “You look hot in that.”

It is wrong to assume that all women want sex on the first date. We don’t. We want a chance to have a normal conversation along with doing something fun like watching a movie, going for

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Carol Townend

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